tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post7621739757725047768..comments2024-02-17T04:06:00.805-05:00Comments on Just Not Said: Ken Boyer, classic sociopathJohn Craighttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08729625146043379286noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-2144950150715338262018-09-10T05:45:27.650-04:002018-09-10T05:45:27.650-04:00Anonymous --
That's the very unfortunate secon...Anonymous --<br />That's the very unfortunate secondary effect that sociopaths have: they sour people on humanity. <br /><br />You shouldn't give up on relationships because of this guy, that would be giving him one final victory over you, which he doesn't deserve. Next time around, just keep your guard up against the 3% of men who are sociopathic; now you know what to look for, what the warning signs are, and you can respond accordingly. (You know that old expression, "that would be letting the terrorists win"? That's what you'd be doing.)John Craighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08729625146043379286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-37725420556702602662018-09-10T05:29:57.739-04:002018-09-10T05:29:57.739-04:00I dated this guy in spring of 2008. I know he had...I dated this guy in spring of 2008. I know he had some sort of condition but it wasn't Cancer. He dumped me via email, telling me an old GF showed up. Said he was still in love with her & she was very sick with cancer. Gave me herpes that made me so sick I spent 4 days in the hospital. I still have our emails. <br /><br />He is the reason I've given up on relationships. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-14799101642649677732017-05-20T05:49:42.911-04:002017-05-20T05:49:42.911-04:00Gambino --
You're right, that guy would have t...Gambino --<br />You're right, that guy would have to be a sociopath. That guy seems to have "gay face," too, so I'd guess he has two reasons to skip out on the date. <br /><br />I agree that dating generally operates in women's favor, but you have to feel a little sorry for those individual women for having been left high and dry like that.John Craighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08729625146043379286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-25149790673153142282017-05-20T05:43:59.408-04:002017-05-20T05:43:59.408-04:00LBD --
Vampires, good comparison.
I actually thi...LBD --<br />Vampires, good comparison. <br /><br />I actually think a "Single Parent Dating Site" is a good idea. Most single guys see having kids as a disqualifier for a prospective wife, so this is a site that allows people with that same "handicap" to find each other. And I guess most of them figure if the other one has kids, too, then no harm in talking about their own. John Craighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08729625146043379286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-16723609700682456242017-05-20T00:23:24.362-04:002017-05-20T00:23:24.362-04:00I suspect this guy fits this category, although hi...I suspect this guy fits this category, although his 'crime' is lower level: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/3119422/serial-date-skipper-who-lures-women-to-pricey-dinner-dates-then-flees-before-bill-comes-strikes-again/<br /><br />However, in this instance, I don't have much sympathy for the women given how one-sided dating is in their favour generally.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14159129538718150897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-30214545053916562412017-05-19T22:08:37.479-04:002017-05-19T22:08:37.479-04:00Sociopaths are like vampires--they can't cross...Sociopaths are like vampires--they can't cross your threshold unless you invite them in.<br /><br />It has always dismayed me how many women so heavily invested in being "nice" that they have almost no sense of self preservation. They will openly share information about their children on dating sites, as if the kids are a bonus that should act as an extra qualifier for a man to wish a relationship with them. "Single Parent Dating Site"? How about saving some information for when you get to know one another better?<br /><br />LBDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09801426778490250668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-21632302697896745792017-05-19T11:02:37.066-04:002017-05-19T11:02:37.066-04:00Runner Katy --
With your experience with sociopath...Runner Katy --<br />With your experience with sociopaths you obviously didn't need the heads up, I'm sure you would have spotted this guy from a mile away. But it's always interesting to see what well worn paths they follow, and how many their behavior patterns are all too familiar. John Craighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08729625146043379286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-6314922036980041602017-05-19T09:59:53.685-04:002017-05-19T09:59:53.685-04:00Woo, thanks for the heads up!!! This guy's be...Woo, thanks for the heads up!!! This guy's been smeared all over the Central Florida area, where I live! I think too many of these creeps come to FL. Probably the year round sunshine and a lot of undercover wealth. I hope his story continues to gain ground and it helps prevent future heartbreak!Runner Katynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-61798823056997727532017-05-19T05:37:28.260-04:002017-05-19T05:37:28.260-04:00Anon --
I didn't see the show, but I have read...Anon --<br />I didn't see the show, but I have read about the story. Incredible story, deceit upon deceit. But to answer your question about what's wrong with people, the answer here is clearly just sociopathy. If someone is a sociopath, there's no depth to which they will not sink. And it's hard to believe the daughter's not a sociopath too; how could she not be, being brought up by that mother?<br /><br />Thank your that link, by the way, I'll try to catch more of the show later today. John Craighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08729625146043379286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-58622988958667118952017-05-19T05:36:42.548-04:002017-05-19T05:36:42.548-04:00Anon --
I didn't see the show, but I have read...Anon --<br />I didn't see the show, but I have read about the story. Incredible story, deceit upon deceit. But to answer your question about what's wrong with people, the answer here is clearly just sociopathy. If someone is a sociopath, there's no depth to which they will not sink. And it's hard to believe the daughter's not a sociopath too; how could she not be, being brought up by that mother? John Craighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08729625146043379286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-40203185352619687542017-05-18T23:02:56.074-04:002017-05-18T23:02:56.074-04:00Obnoxious medical fraud and cons, so much of it go...Obnoxious medical fraud and cons, so much of it going on. For example did you catch this HBO documentary the other night? Crazy true crime story that includes Sociopathy, deceit, Munchausen by Proxy Syndrome, Sex, unnecessary surgeries, Aspergers, thin lips and the whole nine yards. I mean what is wrong with people???? Here's a link to the documentary on Youtube -- catch it before YouTube shuts it down....:<br /><br />https://youtu.be/gq1abIF2cPI<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-84676601185592490292017-05-18T07:37:52.491-04:002017-05-18T07:37:52.491-04:00Susan --
My guess is, now that all this has come o...Susan --<br />My guess is, now that all this has come out and gotten fairly extensive media coverage, "eventually" becomes "in the very near future." <br />John Craighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08729625146043379286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5794535954827182754.post-78273207206711740052017-05-18T06:48:46.932-04:002017-05-18T06:48:46.932-04:00Unfortunately for the women, they were involved wi...Unfortunately for the women, they were involved with a con artist. Thankfully, he's out of their lives (except for the now wife). Hopefully, she eventually kicks him to the curb.<br /><br />- SusanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com