The essence of narcissistic personality disorder is that people who have it can never admit they're wrong, and can never take blame. No matter how badly they screw up, narcissists will never own up to mistakes: it's always someone else's fault. We've all known people like this.
People who will never admit they're wrong can never learn from their mistakes, and as a result are rarely right.
When you have an entire political ideology based on the inability to take blame and a commensurate need to blame others, you can be sure that ideology is deluded.
The essence of feminism is blaming others -- i.e., men -- for all of women's problems. Most women don't subscribe to this type of thinking. But if you're the type who doesn't like to ever admit fault, it's an attractive belief system.
Don't earn as much as you'd like? It's men's fault.
Don't like the fact that you can't have a full time career and also be a full time mother? It's men's fault.
Don't like the fact that the fireman's test requires one to be able to lift a 160 pound dummy and carry it across a room? It's men's fault.
Feel worthless? It's the fault of our patriarchal society that values men more.
Aren't considered pretty? Men need to be reprogrammed.
Men can be used as scapegoats for everything.
Feminism is essentially a narcissistic political movement. This is not to say that there is no truth to anything the feminists say. But for the most part, feminists are the types who must lay blame for their own lack of accomplishment, or personal issues, or faults, elsewhere.
When you think about it, most liberal thought runs along these lines: it's rich people's fault that the poor have less money. It's white people's fault that black people don't test well. It's the fault of the Group of Eight that Third World countries remain less developed.
Feminism, like most of liberalism, is just narcissism writ large.