But, some of the wits have not.
I recently spoke with a 63-year-old woman who'd had some ambition when young, but who has spent the second half of her life working in clerical positions. She came from a dysfunctional background, and was never encouraged to pursue any sort of academic interest. She was also a beauty when young, and most people saw her primarily in that light.
I made some small suggestion to her about something which was bothering her. She replied, "Too late. Mental equilibrium has left the building."
My initial reaction was, hmm, clever -- I wouldn't have thought to phrase it that way.
She said other clever things as well.
And I found myself wondering, how smart is she? I probably understand more stuff than her; but, I've probably made more of an effort to. And I wouldn't have come up with that rejoinder, nor some of the others. So I really can't judge her intelligence.
Sometimes, a positive impression is largely a matter of not being familiar with the limits of the person's repertoire. But sometimes, there's a genuine, undeniable wit there. And you're left wondering.
Usually, it's all too easy to see someone's lack of intelligence.
When someone lacks logic, you can see their limits clearly.
When someone spouts cliches, or recites old jokes, and then looks proud, their lack of originality is painfully apparent.
When someone is only willing to harbor "respectable" opinions, you can see their lack of intellectual courage quite clearly.
When someone bases their opinions on fiction, technically speaking, they're crazy.
When someone thinks you'll be interested in a two minute diatribe about their health status, well, enough said.
But when someone may not be interested in same things you are, or may have different opinions, but has clever ways of talking and different ways of looking at things, they seem smart. Are they? It's hard to tell.
Not entirely coincidentally, I witnessed the same woman change her opinion based on a fact she had been previously been unaware of. (Open-mindedness in a 63-year-old is probably even more impressive than plain old wit.)
That was a refreshing change from witless "intellectuals" too timid to think thoughts that are verboten.
One interesting corollary to all this is that black people tend to have good senses of humor. Despite a lower average IQ, they are better at saying funny stuff, and appreciating funny things.
And in that regard, the converse is also true: Northeast Asians may have the highest average IQs, but when was the last time you heard one of them say something genuinely funny?
(How does all that reflect on the woman? I don't know.)
I explored the somewhat tenuous relationship between IQ and a sense humor a bit here, six years ago.
That was a refreshing change from witless "intellectuals" too timid to think thoughts that are verboten.
One interesting corollary to all this is that black people tend to have good senses of humor. Despite a lower average IQ, they are better at saying funny stuff, and appreciating funny things.
And in that regard, the converse is also true: Northeast Asians may have the highest average IQs, but when was the last time you heard one of them say something genuinely funny?
(How does all that reflect on the woman? I don't know.)
I explored the somewhat tenuous relationship between IQ and a sense humor a bit here, six years ago.
In any case, clever people are fun. And, high IQ or not, it's sorta nice not to be able to see someone's limits.






































