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Sunday, July 23, 2017

Nina van Pallandt

While reading John Heard's obituary yesterday I was reminded of one of his greatest performances, as Cutter in Cutter's Way  in 1981.

I thought it was a cool movie at the time -- and I still do -- but what may have made the biggest impression on me was Nina van Pallandt's brief appearance. She played a rich Santa Barbara socialite who pays co-star Jeff Bridges for his services. Her one line is to tell him, after they've had sex, "Buy some Vitamin E." (Her entire cameo is included at the 1:01 mark of this trailer for the film.)

That one brief glimpse was enough to sear her into my memory banks, even though she was 49 at the time (I was 27). Maybe part of the reason she made such an impression was because it was so ridiculous to think that someone who looked like that would have to pay for sex.

(She had a larger role in American Gigolo, as Richard Gere's "pimp.")

When I read later that she had been involved with Clifford Irving at the time of his fake Howard Hughes "autobiography," somehow that slightly checkered past made her seem even more alluring.

A few pictures:




Her mouth may be a touch too generous, and her nose a little hawkish. But those "flaws" and the fact that her nose actually tilts to the left keep her from being a standard issue blonde beauty. She actually looked a little like Farrah Fawcett, the leading sex symbol of that era. But van Pallandt exuded a playful intelligence that made her far more appealing.

She remained lean and beautiful and elegant-looking for a long time. Here she was in her 20's:


And here she was at 50:


Van Pallandt started her show business career as a singer, and at age 37 sang "The More Things Change" for the Bond film On Her Majesty's Secret Service. (A little ironic that she would stay behind the camera, given that she was more attractive than any of of the actresses in that movie.)

She had three children with her second husband, Frederik, Baron van Pallandt. (I Google-imaged her daughters but could find no pictures.) She was married three times, the last marriage being a brief one in the 1970's.

She turned 85 a week ago today; she probably won't make the news again before she dies. In the meantime, she seems to have led a full life, which, for some reason, makes me glad.

There seems to be a long list of actresses who are far more attractive than the ones who went on to become huge movie stars, something I've never fully understood. Here's another one, and here are a few more.

Thursday, July 20, 2017

Overcoming insecurity

A young soldier, a veteran of Afghanistan, recently found himself at a party in New York City which was being held to introduce up and coming tech guys to venture capitalists. There was also a prominent film star in attendance, and a host of beautiful young women.

The vet found himself talking to one of those beautiful women, and said to her, "This party is making me feel a little insecure about my financial status. I think I'm going to start poking guys in the chest and saying, 'Hey you, you ever been in a firefight?'"

She laughed, though the exchange didn't lead anywhere.

Still, it was a good line.

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

The most insulting judgment on women, ever

The current doctrine that women who are drunk are incapable of consent is, when you think about it, a pretty damning indictment of women. A few drinks and they no longer even have the judgment to make a simple yes or no decision?

If you take feminist dogma seriously -- and their lackeys on the campus and elsewhere certainly seem to -- its implications for public policy are staggering.

It suggests, just for starters, that no woman should ever become President. And a woman like Hillary, who reportedly likes to toss them down with abandon, should never set foot in the Oval Office.

Imagine a President Hillary. At State dinners, it's customary for various dignitaries to propose toasts, and for those present to drink to them. (To abstain would be rude.) Who knows what Hillary might have done after a few toasts.


At a State dinner with Germany, she might have consented to take all of their Syrians.


After a few toasts at a State dinner with France, she might have reversed the Louisiana Purchase.


At a State dinner with England, she might have consented to rescind the results of the Revolutionary War and pledged allegiance to the Queen.


At a meeting with the Governor of Alabama, she might have consented to bring back slavery.


And who knows whom she might have given our nuclear codes to.


This is the Hillary Presidency that the feminists envisioned, anyway.

To take the analogy one step further, Hillary could then have taken all those foreign heads of state to the World Court in the Hague for having taken advantage of her while she was inebriated.

Instead of hearing about "regret rape," we'd hear about "regret pacts."

There are plenty of other implications for the new stance on drinking and consent.

If a bride has more than two glasses of champagne at her own wedding, that could now constitute grounds for annulment.

As for the wedding night, well, forget any plans the groom had for that!

And, really, women shouldn't be prosecuted for DUI's anymore. You see, it's not that they're irresponsible and drive drunk - it's that they were too drunk to be able to make a decision about whether or not to drive. They certainly can't be held responsible for that!

It appears that feminists, for all their big talk, really believe, deep down, that men are adults and women are children. Why else would they say that a woman -- but not a man -- is incapable of consent after a few drinks?

Personally, I have a much higher opinion of women than the feminists do. I think they remain lucid and logical -- as much as they were beforehand, anyway -- after a few beverages. I don't believe that a few toasts turn them into helpless quivering blobs of insentient protoplasm.

It is interesting, though, to know that's how feminists see women.

Monday, July 17, 2017

The Big, Disordered Tent that is the Left


The Left has been extraordinarily successful at attracting a lot of disparate elements to their side.

One of the hallmarks of sociopathy is a false emotionality. (Lance Armstrong and Frederick Baer are perfect examples.) How better to pose as a great humanitarian -- and gain power -- than to become a Democratic politician, a "savior of the oppressed?" (Never mind that, when in power, the Dems favor their campaign contributors in the 1% as much as the Republicans do.)

So if you're a sociopath who wants to masquerade as a champion of the underprivileged -- and get rich by decrying the wealthy -- become Bill Clinton. Or Jesse Jackson. Or Al Sharpton. Or Wendy Davis. Or Richard Blumenthal. Or Barack Obama. Or Hillary Clinton.

There are certainly Republican sociopaths, such as Joe Arpaio and Newt Gingrich and Carly Fiorina and Christine O'Donnell. But I've always been struck by how there seem to be more prominent Democrats than Republicans who fit the profile.

Speaking of sociopaths, I've also written in the past about how hate crimes hoaxers essentially have Munchausen's Syndrome, which is just a form of sociopathy. And how virtually every recent hoaxer has been from the Left.

People with Aspergers Syndrome are drawn to the Left because it claims to the the champion of outcasts.  

Likewise, people with bipolar syndrome, borderline personality disorder, schizophrenics, agoraphobics, alcoholics, drug addicts, histrionics, obsessive-compulsives, psychotics, and a host of others all feel more comfortable with the side which claims to hate the well-adjusted rich. 

The mentally ill, for obvious reasons, like the idea of a generous safety net. They gravitate toward the general Leftist philosophical thrust that nobody is better in any way than anybody else, everyone is merely differently abled. 

The Left attracts the low IQ-ed because it holds that intelligence is a social construct, i.e, is not real. And if anybody is doing better than you, it's only because they were born into privilege.

The Democrats even go a step further and demonize those who would attach any weight to IQ scores. So not only is nobody really any smarter than you, anybody who thinks he is is in fact your moral inferior.

A certain type of woman likes the Democrats because they tell women that the only reason they may not accomplish as much as men is because men are oppressing them. 

The Democrats attract those who like to virtue signal. Indeed, they've made the price of virtue quite cheap: all you have to do is recite political correct dogma, and, voila -- you're one of the good people. 

People of color prefer the Democrats because they have made a bogeyman out of, and have made it acceptable to hate, white males. 

But then, the Left cleverly carved off even a chunk of those for themselves: the gays. The Left has promoted gay marriage, attacked those whose religion disapproves of homosexuality, and in general celebrated and tried to normalize homosexuality at every turn. 

So now the group to be hated is even smaller: heteronormative white males. More recently, every pervert short of a child molester has been recruited to the Democratic Party. (Caitlyn somehow managed to stay Republican.)

The Left also attracts the criminal element by being anti-police. This instinctively appeals to those who've had run-ins with the law. And, the Left focuses on criminals’ rights rather than victims’ rights. (Exhibit A: Obama's "ban the box" initiative.)

Another category of lawbreaker Democrats attract are illegal immigrants: when one of the parties offers to make you legal, why would you not, if you can register in a state with lax voter ID laws, illegally vote for them? That tacit understanding has probably resulted in more Democratic votes than most realize. 

The Democrats have essentially cobbled together a coalition of gullible women, people of color, sociopaths, crazies, the low-IQed, perverts, and criminals. That's a lot of people.

One of the cleverest ways the Left has done this is by constructing an entire edifice of circular reasoning to explain why the dumb are not really dumb, why perverts are not really perverted, and why any lack of accomplishment on your part is the fault of heteronormative white males. 

Which would you rather believe, that you're crazy, or stupid, or a pervert -- or that you're a victim of prejudice? It's a pretty easy choice for most. (Particularly if you're crazy or stupid enough to swallow the Left's reasoning.)

In all of this the Left has been aided tremendously by their stranglehold on the mainstream media. If you're determined to make heterosexual white males the scapegoat, you must constantly publicize their crimes and downplay everyone else's. Thus, when it appears that some white Duke lacrosse players may have raped a black woman, you pounce. And if that "scandal" backfires, well, you just move on to the next one. 

If a white policeman shoots a black man, you make that front page news for weeks, while ignoring police shootings of whites, and ignoring the extraordinarily high rate of black on black murders. 

Making heterosexual white males the malevolent force behind every social ill is a full time job. 

But the more victim categories you can create, the better your chances at the polls. 

Friday, July 14, 2017

A natural coolant

The area I live in had a heat wave for the past two days, with temperatures near 90 and the high humidity that characterizes unpleasant East Coast summer days.

The first day I just suffered through it (I was too lazy to put my window air conditioning unit in). But the second day I remembered something I'd once read about.

I filled a metal water bottle with ice water, and alternated holding it against each of my carotid arteries, and in the crook of each arm. Within four minutes I was no longer sweating, and this kept me completely cool for as long as the ice lasted, which was about an hour.

Try it, it works.

Thursday, July 13, 2017

Cosmo and David

Cosmo DiNardo, the leading suspect in the disappearance of those four young men in eastern Pennsylvania, just confessed to their murders. Here's Cosmo:


When I first saw his picture yesterday (when he was still just a "person of interest," I was struck by his resemblance to David Berkowitz, aka "Son of Sam," whose murderous spree terrified New Yorkers back in 1977:


DiNardo seems to have been a mass murderer as opposed to a serial killer, as all four of those boys disappeared at the same time. It'll be interesting to find out what motivated him, and exactly what his syndrome was.

Teachers vs. Wall Streeters

Every now and then you'll hear of a gathering characterized as "high-powered." What does that mean, exactly?

The people at such a gathering undoubtedly see themselves as a group of tough, dynamic, brilliant, worldly, and successful individuals.

I've met some of them, and they were generally aggressive and workaholic and ambitious and tough (in the sense of being ruthless). But while a small handful of them were extraordinarily smart, most weren't.

The fuel that powered them was not extra IQ points, but narcissism -- and sometimes sociopathy. So their personalities were suffused with ego and a sense of entitlement.

If you want a sense of what they're like, think Donald Trump. They weren't necessarily articulate, or creative, or insightful. But their egos were monstrous nonetheless. Their basic attitude was: admire and lavish praise on me, my beautiful wife, my magnificent house, and my riches.

If you didn't, they resented you. And if you crossed them, or even gently teased them, they would come after you three times as hard. (Think of Trump and how he goes after everyone who criticizes him.)

Wall Streeters don't measure their intelligence by IQ tests. They measure it by their bank accounts. So most of them think they're brilliant, even when they aren't.

More recently, I've gotten to know a few school teachers. As far as intelligence goes, I'd put them at least on a par with the average Wall Streeter.

Most teachers remember their own school years fondly, otherwise they wouldn't be attracted to the field. And no one in the bottom half of his class would have found school a positively reinforcing environment.

Teachers generally aren't narcissistic personalities, so lack boundless self-confidence. And because they don't see themselves as world-beaters, they want a steady income and retirement benefits.

From what I've seen, teachers tend to be nice people from nice families, who went through life being relatively nice.

None absolutely love their jobs. Some may have started out teaching because they liked children, or enjoyed working with teenagers, or had a passion for imparting knowledge. But after being on the job for a while -- and especially after seeing that their passion is nontransferable -- most can't wait to get away from the kids.

Most teachers have, in a sense, settled.

I've never met one who didn't love to travel -- they take advantage of those three months off. And most enjoy reading, which requires a certain calm self-sufficiency. (Again, think of Trump, who  reportedly doesn't even have the patience to read the daily briefings that are standard fare for most Presidents.)

Teachers are dependable, if a little boring. (A teacher is not going to be your first choice as wingman at a night club.) 

Nor do they have scintillatingly irreverent senses of humor.

You'll almost never hear about a teacher who's "larger than life." But neither will you hear about one who "sucks all the oxygen out of the room."

You rarely see a high testosterone teacher. It's easy to imagine Jeb Bush teaching high school history. Donald Trump, not so much.

And, most low testosterone environs are bastions of liberalism. Teachers may also lean left because of the teacher's union, and their government paychecks. And most are simply too nice -- and timid -- to step outside the bounds of political correctness into the dangerous environs of truth telling.

Teaching, especially up through junior high school, is primarily a female occupation, and most of those teachers are part of the "nice white lady" contingent who voted for Obama. They are easily brainwashed.

Still though, teachers are, on average, as smart as Wall Streeters. At least as smart: I've never met a teacher I'd call downright dumb, and I did meet several Wall Streeters I'd classify that way.

The teachers just aren't as "high-powered."

Personally, I far prefer the company of those toward the higher end of the IQ scale, and the lower end of the narcissism scale. 

Tuesday, July 11, 2017

Stupidity-shaming

To make fun of anyone who is fat, or even to point out that someone is overweight, is now considered a cardinal sin. (Even though it actually encourage people to lose weight and be healthier.)

But we have even less control over our intelligence than we do over our weight. So why isn't stupidity-shaming a thing?

One would think, given the alacrity with which the Left has pounced on almost every other form of "discrimination" they can think of, that they would find fault with those who judge others by their IQs.

After all, if anybody breathes a word of the IQ gap between the races, it's pretty much curtains for that person's career.

But, it's generally open season on whites who achieve prominence, if they say anything dumb, unless it's in the service of progressivism.

When you think about it, much of what the media is attempting to do in criticizing Trump is to stupidity-shame. Along with all of the attacks on his character, they try to make him appear dumb to boot. (Occasionally, with his help, they succeed.)

But isn't discriminating against those with less gray matter the ultimate form of discrimination? Our brains make us who we are, and what we are. Every word that comes out of our mouths, every witticism we come up with, every thought we have, is a function of our brains.

How well our brains function seems to be a matter of size, how many folds it has, how well the synapses fire off, and how many glial cells we have. And we certainly have less control over those things than we do over our food intake. Or exercise.

You'll sometimes hear people say, "I'm going to run three miles today, then I'm going to hit the gym for some incline press and pull-ups."

But you'll never hear anyone say, "I'm going to give my cerebellum a good workout today, and after that I'm going to work on my occipital and parietal lobes. Oh, and then the frontal lobe -- I'm a bit weak on ethics."

The reason you never hear anyone say that is because it would be absolutely ridiculous. You can't make your cerebellum any better functioning. You've got what you've got, and you're stuck with it.

But still, why hasn't pretending that all brains deserve equal respect become a cause celebre among the Left?

Might that conflict with the fact that intellectual snobbery is the media's favorite form of preening?

They do like to think of themselves as "enlightened," and conservatives as obtuse.

But imagine if stupidity-shaming were a thing, like fat-shaming.

Colleges would be one of the first targets. Why do they let in some students but not others? Why is it that every spring high school seniors across the nation must undergo such an orgy of stupidity-shaming? (Granted, there are other factors in admission beside IQ, but that is still theoretically the most important factor.)

The Educational Testing Service is an even worse malefactor, since SAT scores are really about nothing but stupidity-shaming. (The correlation between IQ and SAT scores is .9.)

And whenever anyone ever disparages someone's logic or memory or grasp of abstract reasoning, well, he's the one who should be ashamed -- of stupidity-shaming.

If stupidity-shaming actually became a thing, some interesting tactics would develop. Just as, despite the current frowning upon fat-shaming, everybody knows that nobody wants to be fat, so would everyone know that no one wants to be thought stupid. So, people might call to task those who criticized their enemies, pointing out that they were stupidity-shaming.

It'd just be a roundabout way of calling the opposition stupid.

For the same reason, no one would ever accuse others of doing this to their own side.

I'm certain guilty of this theoretical sin, in fact much of this blog is devoted to it.

Just, please, don't accuse anyone else of doing it to me.

Sunday, July 9, 2017

How Lefties are like children

Ever since Trump was elected President, the Left has been throwing a collective fit, marching and protesting nonstop. And the media has been having a complete meltdown. (How could the electorate not follow our advice?)

This is exactly what children do when they don't get their way: throw a tantrum.

(The Right didn't throw this kind of tantrum when Obama got elected. Two years into his Presidency, after he showed his true colors, the Tea Party emerged. They held some quiet, orderly rallies, and that was pretty much it.)

The Left uses any excuse to riot. They are currently doing it in Hamburg, at the G-20 summit. They set cars on fire, smash store windows, throw Molotov cocktails, throw things at policemen, and in general just wreak as much havoc as they can.

This is the behavior of juvenile delinquents. (Though JD's aren't vain enough to attribute their destructive impulses to a higher purpose.)

The Left prevents conservatives from speaking on campus.

Children scream over you so you can't be heard, or cover their ears and screech, "I can't hear you!"

Since many on the Left seem incapable of logical argument, they resort to name-calling instead. ("Racist!" "Sexist!" "Homophobe!")

That's exactly how children argue, by name-calling.

Various members of the Left will sporadically threaten to leave the country if the Republican is elected President.

This is what spoiled children do: say they're going to hold their breath until they turn blue if they don't get their way.

The Left expects the government to provide them a decent living in return for doing nothing.

Sorta like a child getting an allowance.

The Left does an awful lot of virtue-signaling. They recite the correct beliefs, so as to communicate how good they are. (And they always seem to beam with pride as they do so.)

This is exactly how a teacher's pet acts.

The Left, more than anything else, conforms. They are terrified at the thought that they might say something politically incorrect and someone might accuse them of being racist or sexist or homophobic.

Children are said to be particularly vulnerable to peer pressure.

Various members of the Show Biz Left have talked about bombing the White House, or shooting Trump, or have symbolically decapitated him. They don't actually mean it; Trump was in no danger from any of these Hollywood loudmouths. But they did love to playact.

This is what children do: play make believe games, like GI Joe, or cops and robbers.

The Left has tried to portray Donald Trump as the second coming of Adolf Hitler.

Children create bogeymen whom they can be afraid of.

The more you think about it, the clearer it becomes that many on the Left simply got stuck in infantile mode.

They need to grow up.

Saturday, July 8, 2017

How to convince people not to take steroids

An article in the NY Post, Cancer eats half of man's face, featured this before and after picture of Tim McGrath, 38, who got synovial sarcoma on his left cheek:


The article also featured this shot of McGrath before he got sick:


McGrath's physique showed a lot of the standard steroid signatures: the well-defined line between his pecs extending all the way to his collarbones, the raised, convex trapezius muscles, and the bulging deltoids. It's possible he's just naturally strong, but I'd guess he was on steroids.

I then Googled "synovial sarcoma steroids" and found this article from Sharecare.com listing the following possible causes of soft tissue sarcomas:

Cholorophenoles
Copper exposure
Androgenic-anabolic steroids
Herbicides
Arsenic
Dioxins
Ionizing radiation
Polyvinyl chloride (PVC)

When I was diagnosed with prostate cancer last year, one course of action the doctors suggested was chemotherapy, which in large part consists of androgen-suppressing drugs. These basically turn you into a eunuch for a while, and it takes a while to recover from their effects. I said no thanks (the prospect of death suddenly seemed less scary at that point).

If androgen suppression is part of regular cancer treatment, anabolic agents must have the opposite effect, allowing a tumor to grow as if it's, well, on steroids.

Nowhere in the article did it say that McGrath had taken steroids, even though the visual indications are fairly compelling.

Obviously, only a tiny percentage of guys who take steroids end up with synovial sarcomas. (And it's always possible McGrath's cancer was caused by exposure to one of those other chemicals.) But there are plenty of other documented risks from steroids, including liver cancer, kidney damage, heart attacks, impotence, and a lowered ability to produce testosterone on your own.

McGrath sounds like an admirable guy from the article (originally published in The Sun). He has an optimistic attitude, and expressed great gratitude to Dr. Chaiyasate for his treatment and to the people who contributed towards the payment of his medical bills. He also said:

“My journey has been long and mostly inconceivable to most, but I have an amazing support group around me and I draw strength from them daily.”

“I have been through something horrific, but if what I’ve gone through can inspire people to live their lives with gratitude for the things they take for granted then it makes what I’ve gone through all worth it."


Inspiring people not to take things for granted is certainly a noble goal. But that's the kind of lesson that people tend to forget in fairly short order. It's hard not to think that McGrath might accomplish more tangible good by warning people about the possible side effects of steroids.

If you want to do that, the picture at the top of this post would certainly be effective.

Wednesday, July 5, 2017

Sagittal crests, Part III

There's been another apparent assassination of a police officer, this one coming in New York City. The victim was a Myosotis Familia, a mother of two, who was reportedly quite popular on the force:


The murderer was Alexander Bonds, out on parole from a 2013 robbery, who had assaulted another police officer with brass knuckles in 2001:


It's been my recent vague impression that a disproportionate number of men who've committed violent crimes have had a vestigial sagittal crest, i.e., the top of their skull seems to come to almost a peak.

Bonds, who had expressed his hatred of the police in a recent Facebook post, has the wide, powerful jaws one associates with sagittal crests (the original purpose of which was to anchor the jaw muscles to make for a more powerful bite).

Here's are a few more examples, and another.

Bonds doesn't have as powerful a build as some of the others with sagittal crests, but he was apparently homeless from time to time, which may partially explain that.

Redefining beauty

"Fled the Undertow" had a trenchant comment after the previous post:

In order to see feminism in casting, you have to watch America's Next Top Model. Not only was Tyra Banks pushing the heavyset girls, in later seasons she openly declared that she "wanted to re-define the concept of beauty" (as though it needed a new definition).

To that end, she cast every manly, tattooed, weird-looking, or misshapen girl she could find, especially brown and black ones. She had at least two trannies (I guess they got lost on the way to the RuPaul auditions), one girl with vitiligo, one burn victim, and several who could have passed as boys. When audiences got tired of her liberal agenda and quit watching, Tyra doubled down on her odd choices, then hectored her audiences about being closed-minded. (Unfortunately, the UK and Canadian versions of the show do the same thing, but luckily Australia's franchise still cast beautiful girls on its show thanks to its head judge and sponsor, designer Alex Perry, who won't be cowed by PC casting trends.)


I have no idea whether these choices are being made at Tyra Banks' initiative, or whether it's something she's been instructed to do by her network bosses. Either way, it's a little ironic that Tyra Banks would pursue that agenda given that her own success is due at least partly to a nose job which made her more "conventionally" beautiful:


The idea that the Left can somehow succeed in reprogramming what people find attractive is really no different in spirit than those gay conversion camps that the Left decries so bitterly. I happen to agree with them about conversion therapy: the idea that you can simply "pray the gay away" is silly.

But, neither can you get heterosexual guys to be attracted to a type they never found attractive to begin with. We're attracted to whatever we're attracted to, and no amount of heterosexual conversion therapy in the guise of a media campaign will change that.

The hypocrisy is glaring.

Political correctness can force us to watch our words in public, but it can't change our natures. 

Tuesday, July 4, 2017

Those fat-shamers at NBC

Fat-shaming is a concept which has gained a lot of currency recently. For better or worse, it's now a thing. And the campaign against fat-shaming has been led by the feminists.

NBC -- and its affiliates MSNBC and (to a lesser extent) CNBC -- are known for their liberal slant. All three nominally support feminist causes. If anybody were to ever suggest to the brass at NBC Universal that women should be judged by their looks, they would, publicly at least, act extremely offended.

But it's one thing to pay lip service to feminism, and another to actually practice what you preach. Let's take a quick look at some of the women whom NBC Universal has hired as their newscasters, and ask ourselves precisely what qualities these women were hired for.

Was it because of their keen journalistic instincts?

Their original insights and keen, penetrating analysis?

Their mellifluous voices?

Or might it have been because of their looks?

Here's Amanda Drury of CNBC:


NBC's Alex Wagner:


CNBC's Courtney Reagan:


Maria Menounos, a former reporter for NBC Nightly News:


Tamron Hall, who's worked for both NBC and MSNBC:


Natalie Morales of NBC's soft news show Today:


Melissa Stark, a former reporter for both NBC and MSNBC:


Michelle Kosinski, former foreign correspondent for NBC News:


Norah O'Donnell, back around the time she was MSNBC's chief Washington correspondent:


And Lindsay Czarniak, who covered the 2008 Olympics for NBC:


Where are the fatties?

NBC may pay lip service to feminism, disapprove of fat-shaming, and claim to be against judging women by their looks. But whom do they choose to represent them? Slim, trim beauties.

Does anyone honestly think any of these women have been hired if they'd weighed 40 pounds more?

It's true that hiring a good-looking woman is not the same thing as mocking a fat woman. But when almost all of your news reporters are slim and attractive, does that not essentially send the same message?

(If you're fat, we don't want you.)

And when overweight women sitting at home watch the beauty parade on NBC, do you think that message doesn't sink in?

Fat-shamers are merely saying what the brass at NBC communicate only a bit more subtly: that nobody wants to look at a fat woman.

NBC's dramas, soap operas, and comedies also feature mostly slim, beautiful women, at least in the lead roles. (Comedic sidekicks are allowed to be unattractive.)

The movies they run almost all feature beautiful women.

And the commercials NBC runs are even more skewed toward beauties.

All of these actions speak louder than any words a perky news reporter can utter.

NBC may be the proud voice of liberalism. But it's certainly not the body. 

Sunday, July 2, 2017

"Sentence held for deranged rapist who 'enjoyed the hunt'"

I saw the above headline this morning which ran with this accompanying photograph in the NY Post:


I was all set to put up a snarky post along the lines of how this guy actually looked the part, but then I read the article:

An appeals court upheld the maximum prison sentence for a deranged Pennsylvania man obsessed with raping real estate agents, according to reports.

Frank Yeager compiled a list of some 200 potential victims he hoped to violate, and claimed in his diary to “truly enjoy the hunt,” NBC 10 reported.

After spending months compiling his sick list, he tried to rape a real estate agent in 2012, according to prosecutors.

Yeager, 33, went to a real estate agent’s office in November 2012, and asked her to show him a secluded model home. She refused because he was acting strangely.

He returned minutes later, claiming there was a water leak in the home he wanted to see, and begged her to go with him. When a male colleague entered the room, Yeager panicked and fled.

Later, the Realtors went to the house to see whether in fact there was a leak. They found all the house’s lights out and curtains drawn — but no water leaking anywhere, so they called cops.

Yeager, who was born with facial deformities, confessed to the plot, which he attributed to a lifetime of bullying and being shunned by women.

Yeager said knew he would never get the wife and home he wanted, so he planned to kill himself after carrying out his violent sexual fantasies.

“I know it is wrong but I cannot fight the urges…I truly enjoy the hunt and cannot wait for my prize,” he wrote in the diary, prosecutors said.

His parents said in court that Yeager was forced to undergo several facial surgeries as a child and was mentally ill.


The article about this case in The Sun said that Yeager had "endured a lifetime of cruel taunts by strangers."

I don't doubt that Yeager in fact did go through a lifetime of bullying, and he obviously would have been shunned by women. All he wanted was a normal life, and that was clearly not going to happen. 

I'm not suggesting Yeager's not being punished appropriately -- he attempted the crime, so he should pay. 

But I couldn't help feeling sorry for him. 

He evidently has two parents who love him, and who basically tried to plead for leniency from the court. That means there must be some decency in him somewhere. 

The fact that he "panicked and ran" when the male realtor entered that room indicates that he's probably not even a sociopath, since sociopaths rarely panic.

Yeager himself was honest about the attempted rape, and his motivation. And he probably did plan to kill himself afterwards. 

It was his monstrous face, which he was stuck with through no fault of his own, which turned him into a monster.

How many of us can say that if we had spent our entire lives looking like that, and being bullied for it, and even being taunted by passing strangers, that we wouldn't be bitter and want revenge on mankind?

I couldn't. 

I certainly don't blame any of the women who turned him down. But the real monsters in this story are the passing strangers who would see a deformed kid and mock him for it. 

Pedophiles, Part III: While we're at it....

It just occurred to me: if the LGBT movement does believe their own argument that people don't choose their own sexuality, they should also accept people who are into bestiality -- maybe not those who actually practice those it, but at least those who want to.

After all, the heart wants what the heart wants. And is the practice of bestiality really all that harmful?

Think of it this way: raising sentient mammals so that we can eat them is considered perfectly acceptable. So which fate would you rather suffer: having your head chopped off so you can be eaten, or being screwed occasionally by a horny human?

It's my impression that men who practice bestiality aren't really doing so because that's their primary orientation. They're just sexually frustrated guys who don't have a woman available and prefer the feeling of an animal aperture to that of their own hand.

But, I could be wrong about that; maybe some men actually do prefer other species to their own. And if they do prefer other species, who's to condemn that practice -- or at least desire -- as morally repugnant? Certainly not meat-eaters.

The phrase "consenting adults" comes to mind. But bear in mind, eating meat hardly implies consent.

I know some readers will think I've gone off the deep end with this line of argument. In fact, my sensibilities are not so different from yours: I agree that the "ick factor" here is huge. But if we're going to allow the ick factor to dictate the legality of various activities, we might as well outlaw homosexuality since so many people find the idea of that revolting.

Let me emphasize, I'm neither condoning nor trying to normalize any of these practices. And I don't think homosexuality should be outlawed. I just want to point out that if one of your guiding principles is that you don't choose your own sexuality, then, well, you should stay principled.

Drawing the line right outside your own perversion and disapproving of of others is, well, discriminatory.

[Here's another way to look at it. You've probably heard of dolphins which have gotten sexually aggressive with humans. And most of us have witnessed dogs trying to hump someone's leg. When we see this, we tend to find it funny. (Though with dolphins, it can be dangerous.)

We never react by thinking, oh, that is a really perverted dolphin! Nor do we ever think, what a grotesque, sick dog -- we should put it in jail! Most of us just find it sort of cute and almost endearing.

After all, they're just dumb animals whose sex drive got the better of them.

It's easy to lose sight of the fact that humans are just animals, too.

Saturday, July 1, 2017

Pedophiles, Part II

I realized about two-thirds of the way through the comments on the previous post that I had approached this topic the wrong way. I should have framed it by saying that if the LGBT movement believes its own central tenet about not being able to help one's sexuality, then they should accept the pedophiles as their fellow brothers in arms. Not to do so is hypocritical.

After all, if you believe that pedophiles should be reviled and should stay in the closet because of their aberrant sexuality, then perhaps gays should, too.

The gays answer that by saying activities between consenting adults is a completely different matter than the exploitation of children. And, of course, they're right about that. But as I made clear in the previous post, I don't condone child abuse either: the only change I'd suggest is the legalization of CGI-generated child porn. (I'd strengthen the laws against actual child molestation.)

A friend sent an email in which he suggested that that internet porn only be made available to those who agreed to register for it. I think that's a good suggestion. Of course, a lot of pedos would be reluctant to come forward to register. But, if they want their porn, they'd have to.

In any case, the hypocrisy of the LGBT movement in not accepting pedophiles -- at least those who don't actually molest actual children -- would have made for a better argument.

Interestingly, the gay liberation movement initially accepted NAMBLA as part of their movement. According to Wikipedia:

In 1993, the International Lesbian and Gay Association (ILGA) achieved United Nations consultative status. NAMBLA's membership of ILGA drew heavy criticism and caused the suspension of ILGA. Many gay organizations called for the ILGA to dissolve ties with NAMBLA. Republican Senator Jesse Helms proposed a bill to withhold US$119 million in UN contributions until U.S. President Bill Clinton could certify that no UN agency grants any official status to organizations that condoned pedophilia. The bill was unanimously approved by Congress and signed into law by Clinton in April 1994.

In 1994, ILGA expelled NAMBLA— the first U.S.-based organization to be a member—as well as Vereniging Martijn and Project Truth, because they were judged to be "groups whose predominant aim is to support or promote pedophilia." Although ILGA removed NAMBLA, the UN reversed its decision to grant ILGA special consultative status. Repeated attempts by ILGA to regain special status with the UN succeeded in 2006.

In other words, the gays decided it hurt their own cause to be associated with pedophiles, so they cut them loose for tactical reasons. But, at least at first, they recognized the common principle uniting them all. 

Writing the previous post, as I told commenter Steven, made me think of the three child molesters I've known. The first was my YMCA swimming coach in high school, who struck me as a nice guy at the time. Of course, I had no idea about his predilection when I was swimming for him, and wouldn't have suspected it, since he was married with a son. (This guy actually acted on his impulses later on, and was convicted for it.)

The second was a guy I knew when I was in my twenties and lived in Los Angeles; his apartment shared a balcony with mine. This guy was a couple years older than me. He struck me as a pleasant, gentle guy. I was surprised when he told me he had joined Big Brothers of America. At first I couldn't figure out why he would want to spend his free time with some snot-nosed fatherless kid when he could be out having fun; then I concluded that he was simply a nicer guy than me. He never expressed any interest in girls, but I never really thought about that at the time. It was only a few years later that it struck me what he was about. 

The third guy was a middle-aged man who had been pointed out to me as a probable pedophile at the Y where I now work out. He hasn't been there for the past ten years or so, and I'm assuming he was kicked out (though I don't know that for sure). He never actually exercised, but would only show up to hang out in the locker room when the kids' swim team was practicing.

Anyway, the point is that what all three of these guys had in common was that they were physically wimpy. Not a muscle to be seen among the three of them, and all three were short as well. Meaning, they were low on testosterone -- one more clue that, as with gays and lesbians, their sexuality was probably at least partially a function of their hormone levels.

The most famous pedophile of all, Michael Jackson, was another piece of circumstantial evidence for this: he was abnormally skinny and had that weirdly high-pitched voice.

I've always had some sympathy for Jackson, who was reportedly fed female hormones by his father when he was about to reach puberty so that his voice wouldn't change, and the Jackson Five could continue to be a cash-generating machine.

When your own father sabotages you like that, that's just a really, really tough spot to be in.

And -- though I find them personally revolting -- I have some sympathy for pedophiles in general, since they can't help but be what they are.

It seems a little hypocritical for the LGBT movement not to feel that way as well.

Wednesday, June 28, 2017

Child molestation: the one perversion left out in the cold

We live in an age of great sexual liberation. Practically every variation on sexuality has come out of the closet and into the mainstream. In fact, the zeitgeist has swung so far that if you don't accept them -- and, let's be honest, celebrate them -- you are considered beneath contempt.

But the one fairly common perversion it's still safe to label as that is child molestation. The obvious reason for this is that it's not right to take advantage of children. And let me emphasize, I completely agree -- anyone who actually molests a child should be locked up for a long, long time.

But the central tenet of the LGBT movement is that people can't help their orientation, and shouldn't be discriminated against for that reason. Shouldn't that same logic be applied to those whose sexuality skews toward the prepubescent?

If you adhere to that line of thinking -- and I do -- shouldn't child molesters at least be allowed child porn to masturbate to?

The standard answer to that is that you can't make that type of porn without abusing children. But, in fact, with modern computer generated images, you can.

Most people feel a healthy revulsion for child molesters. But, truth be told, many people feel a similar instinctive revulsion for transgenders, and even for ordinary homosexuals. Such feelings are actually evolutionarily adaptive: they keep one on the path to reproduction.

But should this instinctive revulsion necessarily equate with morality? Recently we've been taught that anyone who publicly expresses his feelings of revulsion toward homosexuals is himself immoral.

I agree that our natural feelings of revulsion ought not to dictate laws, since no one can help being what they are. Most of us have no control over whether we're smart or stupid, tall or short, crippled or able-bodied, straight or gay. Fair-mindedness demands we not be blamed for things we can't help.

This is not to say that some people don't feel an inner revulsion when seeing someone who is morbidly obese, or horribly deformed, or weirdly perverted. Of course, only extremely rude people would give voice to their revulsion. And almost all of us feel revulsion -- as well as anger -- when we encounter someone that rude.

And, as we're always told, no one should be judged by these things.

BUT -- and this is a very big BUT -- if we are supposed to retain a sense of moral outrage and shock over men who get off on kiddies -- even if they never touch a single child -- is that really any different from conflating morality with our entirely natural feelings of revulsion for, say, extremely effeminate men or extremely masculine women?

We have to remember that adults who are sexually attracted to children can't help that any more than regular homosexuals can help but be attracted to others of the same sex. And while I believe that any adult who actually molests a child should be locked away in jail for a long stretch, I also think they ought to at least be allowed computer-created pornography.

It's not as if banning those images will change their sexuality.

Exercising a selective morality is always tricky. Our government, as official policy, instructs US soldiers in Afghanistan to turn a blind eye toward Afghan Army officers who take advantage of "tea boys," underage males groomed specifically for pederasty.

If the land of the free and the home of the brave actually allows the sexual exploitation of prepubescent children by an ally -- for whom we are putting American lives at risk -- why would they not allow American men the luxury of computer generated images? Jerking off to a computer is far less harmful than physical contact with a tea boy.

Most readers of this blog are undoubtedly at least a little disgusted by this idea. But really, if we allow our instincts to tell us what is right and wrong, maybe we should outlaw homosexuality as well.

The principle is the same in both cases.

And it applies to another case as well: if we're not to blame people for their feelings, that understanding should extend to people who can't help their instinctive feelings of disgust when confronted with something they find grotesquely perverse.

Perhaps we can measure character by how vocal people are about expressing those feelings; but we can't measure it by the feelings themselves. 

Tuesday, June 27, 2017

Those jacked Brazilians

Seven weeks ago I wrote a post about how Brazilian Nicholas Santos, age 36, had just swum a 50 meter butterfly in 22.61, the fastest time in history in a textile suit. I segued from there into an description of how steroids mold the body.

Last night SwimSwam.com reported that Brazilian Henrique Martins, 25, had swum a 50 meter butterfly in 22.70, the third fastest textile time in history. 

Here is a picture of the 5'10" Martins from 2012 (he's on the left):


And here is another picture of him from circa 2012:


Here is a more recent shot of Martins:


You've got to hand it to those Brazilians. They really know how to put on the muscle.

Sunday, June 25, 2017

Now that Bill Cosby has gotten a mistrial.....

....I guess he can go back to being "America's Dad."

I never thought Cosby a good comedian, but one funny thing did emerge from his trial: various people -- including Cosby and his daughters -- have claimed that it was all a racially motivated conspiracy.  

If it was a conspiracy, it was certainly painstakingly organized. No fewer than 57 different women came forward to say that Cosby had drugged and then raped them when they were helpless. That's an awful lot of smoke for there not to be any fire, especially when you take into account that they all recounted the same telltale signature to his crimes.

It's also striking that the racist conspiracy would include at least eight accusers who were black. (Michelle Hurd, Renita Chaney Hill, Angela Leslie, Jewel Allison, Beverly Johnson, "Lisa," Lise-Lotte Lublin, and Lili Bernard.)

There's always been something extremely self-indulgent about Bill Cosby. In many of his photos he just looks unutterably pleased with himself:






(The "Aren't I cute?" look tends to pall around age seven; Cosby kept wearing it well into adulthood.) 

I remember reading once that Cosby had shared a taxi with a woman in Tahoe and said to her, "How does it feel to be next to someone who will make more money tonight than you'll make all year?"

If you want arrogance and self-indulgence personified in a single sentence, there it is. 

The kind of guy who'd say that is pretty much the same kind who'd drug a woman, then rape her. 

After the initial flurry of women came forth saying they'd been raped by Cosby, a few psychologists speculated that Cosby had that sexual kink whereby it turned him on more to have sex with sleeping women. Given that as a celebrity, Cosby probably had access to plenty of women who were wide awake, there's probably something to that. 

Cosby also has that slightly bug-eyed look I tend to associate with lack of inhibition. The center of inhibition in the brain is in the frontal lobe, and that bug-eyed look is due partly to the lack of a protruding forehead. Might that mean less frontal lobe?

It's just a theory, and I know it sounds farfetched, but it's a correlation I've noticed for some time.

Anyway, I could easily be wrong about that. But there's simply no way all 57 of those accusers are wrong about "America's Dad," and there's also no way they are part of a racist conspiracy. 

Friday, June 23, 2017

Gwyneth Paltrow as metaphor for Hollywood


Gwyneth Paltrow has a well known lifestyle site, Goop, in which she touts her expensive tastes to the hoi polloi. Two of her better known quotes:

"I'd rather smoke crack than eat cheese from a tin."

“I think to have a regular job and be a mom is not as, of course there are challenges, but it’s not like being on set.”

(In other words, it's much tougher to be a movie star who works several weeks a year and has nannies and tons of money than it is to be a regular mom.)

These and other quotes show how out of touch Paltrow is, how little sense she has of what life is like for the vast majority.

Her political quotes are, given her occupation and lifestyle, unsurprising: when Paltrow addressed Obama at a DNC fundraiser at her home in Brentwood in 2014, she gushed that she was "one of his biggest fans, if not the biggest," and that he was "an incredible role model." (Was there a touch of unintended condescension in that characterization?) 

She then said, "You're so handsome I can't speak properly." (Her personal long term relationships have been with Brad Pitt, Ben Affleck, and Chris Martin, none of whom bear the slightest resemblance to Obama.)

Paltrow may now be the widely mocked actress in Hollywood.

But really, is she so different from all the other celebrities who grace us with their wisdom?  

While social media tends to focus on Paltrow, practically every other Hollywood activist is equally out of touch. And when they speak up, it's usually all about burnishing their own image as "good" people.

When Leo DiCaprio and John Travolta lecture us about how we have to cut back our carbon footprint while they travel by private jet, are they really so different from Gwyneth?

When Whoopi Goldberg and Alec Baldwin and Miley Cyrus threaten to leave the country if the Republican is elected, but somehow always seem to end up staying, are they so different?

When the women of The View gush over Barack Obama's looks, are they so different?

When Paltrow talks about the high class products she uses, she's merely trying to show what a classy, discerning, right-thinking person she is. Just like all those other Hollywood celebs with their virtue-signaling political opinions. 

Paltrow is not exceptionally pretentious; she is merely representative.